Stop Acting Like Falling for Distractions is the Worst Thing You Ever Did!!!
The distractions will come. You may fall...you can use the fall to push forward more or you use that fall to reconfirm a negative emotion you feel about yourself.
Realize the steps you are taken to better yourself is a task in itself. So be patient in mastering this beast we call a negative mindset. Some of us have been through so much, that we allowed those negative experiences to dictate and support our reasons for just believing the worst about everything. For some of us the impulse to be negative about life's challenges is second nature. So yes, saying you want to do better is good. But the actions and developing a mindset that will allow a positive change in your life is work that you must do on a continual bases. Get out of your head that you cannot make a mistake or that you will no longer, while trying to be better/positive have deal with your negative emotions. Yes you do need to be consistent about something no matter what. You can make the commitment of being consisted but be patient with yourself.
Where are these Distractions Coming from and Why Now?
I have said this before...you make decisions based on your own belief system about yourself. So take valuable time to ask yourself why did you fall for the same trap. Nine times out of ten, your old way of thinking still intact. If you are negative...the choices you make will not be good. If you do not love yourself, your actions will not allow you to confirm your love for yourself. You will continue to do things to confirm your hate for yourself instead. The distractions are bothering you now...AWESOME!!! To actually care is a huge step! You are actually upset because you got distracted by something that before, would not have bothered you. You see that the decisions your making is not going to get you to a better you. The key is to not beat yourself up for not making over night changes, not when you have functions from a negative belief system for YEARS AND YEARS!!! This is not the time to take on the I can't make a mistake attitude.
Decide the One Thing Your Going to be Consisted about...Come Hell or High Water!!!!
This consistent action is a must do. This action is not associated with your feelings. This action is associated with only with the person you want to be. This action is associated with your passion. You will do this on a consistent basis. If you are a writer...you write on a regular basis. If you are a singer...you do this on a regular basis. If you gardener....you get my drift. Stay connected to the child in you. That child in you will bring you joy. That child in you named your passion a long time ago. Stay consistent about doing the action, the work, that allows you to express yourself where you are naturally and most gifted. Get your heart activated in your life and your work. Distractions can not shut this down....do not let it. Again just keep going.
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