Monday, March 2, 2015

Are You Always Late for Everything? Lets Examine Why Ladies!!!

Why is it that you're always late for everything... your job?

It is annoying to others when you show up late all the time. It is annoying as hell to your boss. Your typical day may be you dragging in to work 15min late the majority of the time. This is not a reflection of just you as an employee but a reflection of your life, the way you look at it. Nine times out of ten you are late for something that you are not looking forward to doing. When you are excited to be involved in something you are on time for the most part. If you love what you are doing...you will be promptual for the most part. What you're excited about doing makes you feel better, it is just something you look forward to doing. You will be on time to do something that brings immediate satisfaction.

Are you late when it comes to meeting so called friends?

To them you are the person who is always late. Why? The same goes for this scenario. If you truly...I do mean truly enjoy the atmosphere your circle of friends create, then you cannot wait to be in the midst. If you truly, get lifted up, If you can truly wholeheartedly smile and laugh with this circle of friends...you would rush to be there.  If you truly felt the love, the trust, and the peace in this relationship you would be wherever you're going...ontime. IF you truly were yourself around your circle of friends...you can't wait to get to a place where you know your understood. You know what to expect, you know you're going to have fulfilling moments. So what is the real reason your late?

The reason you are late...brings me to an ugly but, for some, true conclusion. 

Yes you may need time management skills. But this is not the real reason your late. You may need a different shift...not the real reason your late. You may need , just maybe, to be real with yourself. Listen very closely. Stop doing stuff that does not add to you. How long will you continue on a cycle that does not bring you the smallest amount of joy. You are late for the job you hate...I mean hate. You are there to make ends meet ONLY. Your life is better than that!! Stop hanging with people you just tolerate. You get nothing out of the relationship/friendship. They dump all their business on you and when you want to vent...your simply cut of like your emotional world is of no importance to them. You are at fault for tolerating that as your reality. We do this to ourselves. Stop sending open invitations to situations you can't even be truly open to. Enjoy the rest of the day. Meditate. Pray. Start making changes now. You can love your what you do for a living. You can love your circle of friends and not just tolerate stuff. When are you going to be happy?

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